Find the JOY in the smallest things. Smile. Laugh. Just as it’s normal to feel frustrated and even get angry, it’s important for caregiver survival to find the JOY in the smallest things. For me, it was that fleeting moment of recognition. After a visit, my father and I rose to go our se[...]
Dear Caregiver, Are you rushing to get the next thing done… and then the next? We all do, from time to time. But if we rush too much and for too long, we’ll miss what is (and who is) important in our lives. Just a friendly reminder from The Caregiver’s Voice. 😉[...]
The Family Guide to Aging Parents is a must-have resource for family caregivers and the professionals who help them. Carolyn Rosenblatt, RN, Elder Law Attorney offers an independent and balanced view of the spectrum of care options and issues families will face as their parents age. Her key message [...]
The Caregiver’s Voice will be launching a new column called VOICES with Dementia. During the latter part of the last century (mid-to late nineties), few voices of people with dementia or Alzheimer’s were heard. Slowly, we’re moving forward into the 21st century and more people are speaking and[...]
WEGO Health invited Shelley Webb and me to join Amy Goyer of AARP for an informative Twitter chat about caregiver experiences, resources, and caregiver tips. Who is a caregiver? Amy emphasizes the common perception that caregivers don’t view themselves as such. I agree. It took me months if not year[...]
Norrms, as he’s affectionately known, has been living with dementia for over seven years. First diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and then later with Lewy body dementia, his words inspire and help caregivers see more deeply what it’s like to live with dementia. This is a mostly unedited p[...]
Caregiver, Seek RESPITE if even for Five Minutes Caregiving martyrs are not heroes. We only have so much energy to give each day. And caregiving martyrs rarely survive long enough to be heroes. When you find yourself at the end of your rope, step away, if even for five minutes. You don’t want [...]
Caregiver, you deserve a RESPITE. These are the kinds of moments that leave us smiling and finding the JOY in Caregiving. ENJOY a bit of FUN! You deserve it! I’m wondering, “What are those hamsters thinking?” TOO CUTE to pass up. You know you’re a caregiver if at 33 seconds y[...]
What is it about guilt that causes some caregivers to suffer? What’s worse is some of us become paralyzed by guilt. How fair is that? It’s not. During the almost twenty years, I’ve specialized in serving caregivers for people with dementia, I’ve learned that guilt has a stronghold on some while othe[...]
Adamia – silky smooth velvety soft lotion for caregivers. Lotions are as diverse as the people who use them. Some prefer scented while others, unscented. Some demand special creams and lotions for their face, around the eyes, hands, feet, and body, while others look for a do-it-all lotion. Som[...]
A young caregiver, now 18 years old, reflects on her commitment to care for her grandmother at an early age. (TCV Ed.) A Commitment to Care Guest article by Leah Bender When the tornado warning sounded, I could have gone into the basement even though my grandma wouldn’t be able to join me. I r[...]
Earlier this month I began writing for U.S. News & World Report. My first article was The Two Most Important Caregiver Tips. Caregivers for people with dementia are subject to growing overwhelmed, stressed, and isolated. Left unchecked, these feelings often spiral into depression. That’s why it’[...]
